I had a friend, or so I thought, that was special. We laughed and cried together, and provided an ear and support to each other. That was a while ago. I witnessed her anger once, directed at me. I heard the hateful comments she said because I got sick and missed an appointment she had set up. So, I did what I would like someone to do for me. I confronted her about it. Got it out and in the open, she apologized and I forgave. We moved on, or so I thought. Then there was distance as I moved on to a different company, and then started my own business. I thought of her often and sent her love.
I had the opportunity for contact out of the blue one day so I took it. Wow, slammed. She wanted nothing to do with me and wouldn't even let me know why. What hurt the most was that I could feel her anger, her frustration yet I honestly don't know why I was the target, nor what I had done to end the friendship. Was I too honest? Was I different (I chose a different path in my life than she chose in hers) and she wasn't able or willing to accept this? I know I never talked behind her back even when others did. I defended her and thought I was a good friend. A loyal one. But obviously I missed something blaringly obvious. I'm sorry for that.
I wish for her the best. I wish for her that all her dreams come true; prosperity continues to find her and her husband; she is always healthy and loved; and that her path is more and more blessed each day. I send her light and love, and a huge thanks for the ear, the shoulder and the support she provided. And...goodbye.